God willing, your spouse will be by your side long after your kids move away and start their own lives, so I understand the advice to put the spouse first. That doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt terribly when you want different things, especially a desire as deep and primal as for more children. I hope you find peace.
I feel you, here! I feel this.
I am in this exact situation right now. It's so painful. Praying that I can find the strength to put my husband's feelings first and let go.
God willing, your spouse will be by your side long after your kids move away and start their own lives, so I understand the advice to put the spouse first. That doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt terribly when you want different things, especially a desire as deep and primal as for more children. I hope you find peace.